There are many romantic relationships that will end
up in the friend zone. It may be very frustrating for
you that he only sees you as a friend because he
can't see how perfect you are together. You cannot
believe he only wants to be friends or only sees you
as a friend. He knows how well you get along, and
how you can talk about anything. He has told you he
feels closer to you than anyone else on earth. So then
why won't he pluck you out of the friend zone and
make you his romantic partner?
You begin to wonder what else he needs to see or
what else you can do to finally get out of the friend
zone. You should be having a wonderful romance, yet
you are stuck in his friend zone while he dates other
women who are the complete opposite of you.
He
complains to you about his relationship disasters and
dramas and you wonder if he is either blind or stupid.
How can he not see what is right in front of him? How
can he not know how perfect you both are for each
other? Why didn't he put the bimbos he has been
dating in the friend zone instead of you? What is
wrong with him?
There may not be anything wrong with her per say.
He may just think that the reason you two get along
so great is because you are only friends.
He may
think that if you got out of the friend zone and began
dating, it would be an epic fail. You have become so
important to him that he couldn't bear to lose the
friendship you have. But remember, he may not
always feel the same. He may get tired of seeking out
(and finding) all the wrong girls for him and take a
chance on you. There may be some growing up he
needs to do or some lessons he needs to learn first. It
is so hard to see your soul mate make one
relationship mistake after the other and wait patiently
for him in the friend zone. So how do you knock some
sense into him? Is there a way to get him to see you
and your relationship the way he should?
You have already won him over as a friend and there
may be nothing you can do to show him he needs to
switch your zone. Pouring out your heart and soul can
actually push him further away. Sure, it can get you
out of the friend zone, but you could wind up in the
"dead zone" because now he is so uncomfortable he
can't deal with you even as a friend. You don't want to
push your luck and push him away. It might be best to
find other ways to get his attention rather than with a
sudden outburst of emotion.
Do you hug each other?
Try to do that a little more often. Physical contact may
bring about a physical response will may then trigger
thoughts and emotions. Touch him in ways that
appear friendly, and allow for friendly ways of showing
affection without going overboard. Let him see you
being affectionate with someone else. Jealousy is
another way to get someone to realize their true
feelings. Just don't go overboard because that too
can backfire
There are too many people who couldn't hold it in any
longer and just unload all their feelings on their friend
all at once. They were not prepared for the
consequences and hurt feelings. They not only got to
hear that their feelings are not reciprocated, but now
the friendship has changed or is non-existent. So do
you and the one you think is your soul mate have a
chance of making this work on another level? Can
you leap out of this friend zone and into the romantic
zone anytime soon?
Your patience has probably worn very thin at this
point. You may have spent a lot of time searching for
clues and for his innermost feelings but come up
empty or more confused that ever. All relationships
are in our lives to teach us lessons, and yours could
simply be to learn patience while he learns his lesson,
because then you will be rewarded with being out of
the friend zone for good.
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