SOME TIPS THAT HELPS IN FIXING A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP

 Most relationships, no matter how good, will at some point or another run into problems and most problems are easy to work out. Other more serious problems are not usually as easy to fix, but with both parties willing, they too can be worked out. The following are tips that will help you in fixing a broken relationship.

Tip #1 Identify the problem The first thing you need to do is identify the problem, and it is important that both parties see and understand the problem and what it was that caused the problem. If it wasn't a single thing but rather a series of events that led up to the problem then you both need to clearly see them and understand the cause that led to the series of events.

Tip #2 Share your feelings. You need to be openly honest about your feelings. A relationship work successfully only when there is good communication between both parties. When communicating your feelings it is important to choose your words carefully so as not to offend, but you need to be honest and not hold back how you really feel.

Tip #3 Listen It is equally important that you listen to your partner, paying close attention to their feelings as well, because good communication is a two-way street. If you don't clearly understand something then be sure to ask specific questions to get a better understanding of how they feel. By doing this you will better understand the primary root of the problem.

Tip #4 Be thoughtful A great way to help in fixing a broken relationship is to give small, thoughtful gifts. Although it isn't a cure for the problem it will show your partner that you are thinking of them and that you care. Make sure the gifts are something they like, showing that you put some thought into it rather than just grabbing something you see in the checkout line.

Tip #5 Go on dates It is sad that most couples fall into the same daily routine and forget the dating part of a relationship. Dates are fun and they get you out of the house together and break up the monotony of the daily grind. They don't have to be an expensive date, just something that you both like to do. And make sure that you set the date ahead of time so that you both have time to get ready rather than just deciding at the spur of the moment. Women especially don't like spur of the moment dates because they like to have time to fix themselves up nice before they go out.

You Want Romance But He Has You in the Friend Zone

There are many romantic relationships that will end up in the friend zone. It may be very frustrating for you that he only sees you as a friend because he can't see how perfect you are together. You cannot believe he only wants to be friends or only sees you as a friend. He knows how well you get along, and how you can talk about anything. He has told you he feels closer to you than anyone else on earth. So then why won't he pluck you out of the friend zone and make you his romantic partner? You begin to wonder what else he needs to see or what else you can do to finally get out of the friend zone. You should be having a wonderful romance, yet you are stuck in his friend zone while he dates other women who are the complete opposite of you.

He complains to you about his relationship disasters and dramas and you wonder if he is either blind or stupid. How can he not see what is right in front of him? How can he not know how perfect you both are for each other? Why didn't he put the bimbos he has been dating in the friend zone instead of you? What is wrong with him? There may not be anything wrong with her per say. He may just think that the reason you two get along so great is because you are only friends.

He may think that if you got out of the friend zone and began dating, it would be an epic fail. You have become so important to him that he couldn't bear to lose the friendship you have. But remember, he may not always feel the same. He may get tired of seeking out (and finding) all the wrong girls for him and take a chance on you. There may be some growing up he needs to do or some lessons he needs to learn first. It is so hard to see your soul mate make one relationship mistake after the other and wait patiently for him in the friend zone. So how do you knock some sense into him? Is there a way to get him to see you and your relationship the way he should? You have already won him over as a friend and there may be nothing you can do to show him he needs to switch your zone. Pouring out your heart and soul can actually push him further away. Sure, it can get you out of the friend zone, but you could wind up in the "dead zone" because now he is so uncomfortable he can't deal with you even as a friend. You don't want to push your luck and push him away. It might be best to find other ways to get his attention rather than with a sudden outburst of emotion.

Do you hug each other? Try to do that a little more often. Physical contact may bring about a physical response will may then trigger thoughts and emotions. Touch him in ways that appear friendly, and allow for friendly ways of showing affection without going overboard. Let him see you being affectionate with someone else. Jealousy is another way to get someone to realize their true feelings. Just don't go overboard because that too can backfire There are too many people who couldn't hold it in any longer and just unload all their feelings on their friend all at once. They were not prepared for the consequences and hurt feelings. They not only got to hear that their feelings are not reciprocated, but now the friendship has changed or is non-existent. So do you and the one you think is your soul mate have a chance of making this work on another level? Can you leap out of this friend zone and into the romantic zone anytime soon? Your patience has probably worn very thin at this point. You may have spent a lot of time searching for clues and for his innermost feelings but come up empty or more confused that ever. All relationships are in our lives to teach us lessons, and yours could simply be to learn patience while he learns his lesson, because then you will be rewarded with being out of the friend zone for good.

REASONS WHY MOST GUYS FIND IT HARD TO ATTRACT LADIES

Most guys don't have the luck nor the success that they want attracting women. Most of the time, they are operating out of the "hope and pray" strategy. Which basically means... They don't have any strategy at all. They would rather wait for good fortune to come their way than to try to make things happen. The problem with that is... It usually just leads to a lot of lonely nights. Before you can craft a better strategy, though, you kind of have to know why it is hard for you to attract women. When you know why it's hard, then you have a pretty decent chance at being able to turn things around for yourself.

Here are 10 of what I find to be the more common reasons why it is hard for most guys to attract women. You might agree with some, disagree with others, but a few will probably apply to you. So, here they are:

 1. You work too many hours to go out and meet women. This is a hard one to deal with, but it can be done. When you do work a lot of hours, the last thing that you need is a strategy that doesn't produce well. You need to have an efficient strategy for meeting women.

 2. You don't believe there are a lot of quality women out there. This is the mindset that afflicts a lot of guys who have been burned before. If you don't believe that there are a lot of quality women to meet, you are probably not going to put much effort into meeting them. So, this has to change if you want better results.

 3. You rely on the "she should approach me" mentality. A lot of guys have this idea that the woman should just approach them. Problem is, the guys who think this is the way it should be are usually not the kind of guys women approach. Waiting for her to make the move is one of the slowest ways to try to meet and attract women.

 4. You hang out with guys only. The problem with hanging out with guys only, is that you usually have a hard time relating to women. And a lot of women do get turned off by guys who are with a crowd of other guys.

 5. Your flirting skills need to improve. This is also pretty common. You have to remember that you need to leave your ego at the door. If your flirting isn't getting you the results that you want... chances are, they need some improving. That's okay. It doesn't take a lot of effort to get it right, just the realization that this might be something that you could work on.

 6. You get torn apart by one rejection. If one rejection absolutely crushes you, then yeah, it is going to be hard to attract women. Rejection kind of comes with the territory, though there ARE plenty of things that you can do that will eliminate most rejections. You still need to be able to brush it off when it happens.

 7. You live in the past. Are you the kind of guy who still remembers that one girl who broke your heart and you assume that all women are going to be like her? If so, that needs to change. Think about the NOW.

 8. You are "friends only" material. This is what happens to a lot of guys who actually do okay when it comes to meeting and making conversation with women. They end up being seen as friends material. As long as you come across that way, then that is the way that most women are going to see you.

 9. You get tongue tied and the conversation dies. Not being able to hold your end of the conversation is always going to make it harder to attract a woman. You have to be able to hold up your end and make it fun for her to talk to you. If you do, then you are going to see that most women want to get to know you better.

 10. You don't ask women out. Okay, so a lot of guys will complain about having a hard time attracting women, then they will admit that they have a hard time asking for a date. No matter what, if you don't ask for the date, you really can't complain. You have to be able to ask and ask in a way that makes it HARD for her to say no to you.

THINGS GUYS DONT LIKE IN THEIR GIRLS

Things guys don't like in their girls:

1. Most guys don't like girls who can't speak correct grammar. A lady should be able to express herself accurately. Use your dictionary a lot.
2. Most guys don't like fat women, some do but most don't. As a rule, looking shapeless and disproportional can be a major put off. Adopt a new exercise habit. Maintain a trim and fit body.
3. Most guys don't want their woman looking too skinny. While fatness is on 1 bad side, being too skinny is not good either. They want a woman with some "FLESH" in the right places. You know what I mean.
4. Most guys don't like women who talk too much. Communication is a very important life wire of every relationship. But over-communication can be a big put-off. Learn when to talk and when to zip it.
5. Most guys don't fancy a girl who is too friendly to everybody. They want their woman private and reserved. Once u get into a relationship wit a guy you love and who loves you, be cautious of how u relate wit others. Be reserved and restricted in how you show affection, especially to other guys.
6. Most guys hate women or ladies who complain a lot. It's horrible. Don't go about wearing a long face looking like the whole world is against you. Stop it! Look bright and happy. Even when you're going through hell, keep a cheerful and non-complaining countenance. It is a winning attitude. Complaining and disturbing tendencies can drive a guy crazy. It can also drive him away.
7. All guys(not just most guys)don't like a lady who is a rebel. One who they find hard to control. It starts in your mother's house. How submissive are u? Being heady and stubborn won't get u anywhere. Guys run from such ladies. Submit yourself to authority. Be quiet and willing to learn. Control yourself especially when angry. Don't ruin your image with bad behaviour.
8. Most guys can't stand a girl who lies. It's not smart. Just say the truth always. Honesty is still the best policy. Drop lying. It gets ugly because soon enough, the truth will surface.