Most guys don't have the luck nor the success that
they want attracting women.
Most of the time, they are operating out of the "hope
and pray" strategy.
Which basically means...
They don't have any strategy at all.
They would rather wait for good fortune to come their
way than to try to make things happen.
The problem with that is...
It usually just leads to a lot of lonely nights.
Before you can craft a better strategy, though, you
kind of have to know why it is hard for you to
attract women.
When you know why it's hard, then you have a pretty
decent chance at being able to turn things around
for yourself.
Here are 10 of what I find to be the more common
reasons why it is hard for most guys to attract women.
You might agree with some, disagree with others, but
a few will probably apply to you.
So, here they are:
1. You work too many hours to go out and meet
women.
This is a hard one to deal with, but it can be done.
When you do work a lot of hours, the last thing that
you need is a strategy that doesn't produce well. You
need to have an efficient strategy for meeting women.
2. You don't believe there are a lot of quality women
out there.
This is the mindset that afflicts a lot of guys who have
been burned before. If you don't believe that there
are a lot of quality women to meet, you are probably
not going to put much effort into meeting them. So,
this has to change if you want better results.
3. You rely on the "she should approach me"
mentality.
A lot of guys have this idea that the woman should
just approach them. Problem is, the guys who think
this is the way it should be are usually not the kind of
guys women approach. Waiting for her to make the
move is one of the slowest ways to try to meet and
attract women.
4. You hang out with guys only.
The problem with hanging out with guys only, is that
you usually have a hard time relating to women. And
a lot of women do get turned off by guys who are with
a crowd of other guys.
5. Your flirting skills need to improve.
This is also pretty common. You have to remember
that you need to leave your ego at the door. If your
flirting isn't getting you the results that you want...
chances are, they need some improving. That's okay.
It doesn't take a lot of effort to get it right, just the
realization that this might be something that you could
work on.
6. You get torn apart by one rejection.
If one rejection absolutely crushes you, then yeah, it
is going to be hard to attract women. Rejection kind of
comes with the territory, though there ARE plenty of
things that you can do that will eliminate most
rejections. You still need to be able to brush it off
when it happens.
7. You live in the past.
Are you the kind of guy who still remembers that one
girl who broke your heart and you assume that all
women are going to be like her? If so, that needs to
change. Think about the NOW.
8. You are "friends only" material.
This is what happens to a lot of guys who actually do
okay when it comes to meeting and making
conversation with women. They end up being seen as
friends material. As long as you come across that
way, then that is the way that most women are going
to see you.
9. You get tongue tied and the conversation dies.
Not being able to hold your end of the conversation is
always going to make it harder to attract a woman.
You have to be able to hold up your end and make it
fun for her to talk to you. If you do, then you are going
to see that most women want to get to know you
better.
10. You don't ask women out.
Okay, so a lot of guys will complain about having a
hard time attracting women, then they will admit that
they have a hard time asking for a date. No matter
what, if you don't ask for the date, you really can't
complain. You have to be able to ask and ask in a
way that makes it HARD for her to say no to you.
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